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The Big Debate - should you or shouldn't you??? The question here is not will you have a bar at your wedding, it's what kind of bar will you have? When it comes to bars, there are a few options but two main alternatives; cash bar and open bar.

Let's explore the differences.

An open bar is where the booze flows free, you and your bride pick up the tab. This is great for everyone who attends the wedding, but can affect the bottom line and can quickly eat a large portion of your budget.

A cash bar is where your guests pay cash for their own drinks. They can still have anything that they want; they just have to pay for it. Though this choice is easier on your wallet, it's not at the top of the etiquette list and it's not so cool for your rep either. Tradition says that people who attend your wedding are your guests, and as such, they shouldn't have to pay for anything. So keep this in mind when making your selection.