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Though times and traditions have changed this is one that has largely stayed the same. It is customary for the man to ask the father for his daughter's hand in marriage as a mark of respect.

**Although some men today choose to propose first and then request a blessing from the brides parents either is acceptable just try and gauge what is best for your situation.

Seeking permission to many may seem old fashioned; today it is still seen as a polite and respectful gesture. If you live some distance away you should telephone or write to your future father-in-law.

Most parents care tremendously for their children's welfare, whatever their age, and they would welcome discussing such an important decision with you. They will then be assured that their daughter will be well cared for and your decision will be seen as being made responsibly. Getting parents on-board at this time should make the rest of the wedding day planning much simpler and less stressful.