Getting your marriage license is one of the last steps you have to take before the actual ceremony. If you’re here, you’re close to the finish line, bro! The good news is, if you go prepared, the whole process should be painless. One word of caution: this information gives you an overview of what is likely to be required in your state – so be sure you check out the facts a few weeks before you and your gal head to the office. Here are some tips.

•     Go together. Yeah, I’m saying it just for that one guy who thinks he can sit out this part. Would you really want someone to be able to get a marriage license with your name on it without you there?

•     Make sure you know where you’re supposed to go. Sounds like a no-brainer, but some states require that you get the license in the county where you live and some require that you get it in the county where you will be getting married.  Here is a great resource which will give you all the current state specific marriage license information, State_Marriage_Laws.

•     Ask if there is a waiting period – either before or after you apply. Imagine going to get the license two days before the ceremony only to find out you have a three day waiting period – don’t let it happen, man.

•     Find out whether or not a blood test is required in your state. If so, you will have to make appointments to get that done too, so factor that into the time you’ll need.

•     Expect to have to show proof of identity and age – at least a driver’s license but more likely a birth certificate.  If either of you are under 18, some states will still let you marry with permission from the minor’s guardian.

•     If either of you have been married before, you’ll have to bring proof of dissolution of the marriage. In some states knowing the court date is enough – in others you’ll need the paperwork to prove it.